Thursday, April 4, 2013

Into the Light


When I first entered Big Sissy's life, she was in the fifth grade. People can say all they want about junior high school and the pains of adolescence, but I'm pretty sure fifth and sixth grade are the worst! By the time Big Sissy was in 8th and 9th grade, she almost seemed human again. Of course, it probably didn't help her pre-teen rebelliousness to suddenly have a foreigner tagging around acting the part of her mom, but that's how it went.


By the time I showed up, Big Sissy was 11 and had been covertly drawing manga for years. I suppose she took to hiding her pictures because she got into trouble for drawing them. And, she got into trouble for drawing them because she drew them everywhere all the time. Each and every page of her school textbooks was covered with her illustrations.*** She also doodled on the backs and even the fronts of her homework and in-class assignments (as well as on tests and quizzes). It was as if each and every blank spot of paper was meant to be illustrated. Big Sissy was also famous for spending hours in her room redrawing different scenes from comics she'd read instead of doing her homework. And, of course, she'd quickly shove them into her desk drawer when one of us came near her room. Sometimes the drawer would be so full of "secret" manga that it couldn't be opened.

Those early years of our relationship seemed to be one continuous conversation (debate? argument?) about the proper place and time for art and about the need to bring her talent into the light so she could draw in the pursuit of a greater good. It took years for me to convince Big Sissy that we supported her talent, just not her semi-delinquent approach to it. Later, as she thought about her future and started to plan for college, we talked about the importance of balancing her passion for drawing with being able to support herself.

Recently, Big Sissy started drawing and painting in earnest again. No more textbook doodles or papers crammed into desk drawers! Finally, she's bringing her talent to the light.


So, what do you think?


***Before you judge her too harshly, I should tell you that textbooks in Japan are much different than in the US. They are thin paperback books that you purchase and keep, so Big Sissy wasn't defacing school property, just her own.

Oh, just in case you're thinking about it, don't be a jerk and steal her artwork.

11 comments:

Anonymous said...

Absolutely wonderful art. The image with the birds is my favorite of these three. - Joe

icansaymama said...

I love her pictures! She is really talented! The picture with the flowers is so beautiful!
Joy

FMBMC said...

Wow. Just wow. I always knew she was amazing. Please tell her I said so. And I'd love to see more!

Anonymous said...

Beautiful!

Amy K. said...

Does she have an Etsy set up? I would purchase all of those.

Jennifer G said...

Seriously amazing work! I'm with Amy K. She needs an etsy. I would buy these. Of course, we don't want her to think that she doesn't need college and a full time job... but what a wonderful talent and an amazing way to supplement income! These really are well done. I would so decorate my daughter's room with these pics.

Anonymous said...

And, I third the suggestion of an Etsy account for Big Sissy. Lovely artwork. I'm glad she's expanding her portfolio from manga. You've got some talented kids.

Mimi

euchlid said...

Cute, and whimsical! She should definitely do some handmade watercolour greeting cards, those would get snapped up easily!

Mom on the Edge said...

The artistic talent must come from their dad. I can't even manage stick figures.

Mom on the Edge said...

Big Sissy appreciates your comments and is working on setting up an Etsy shop. I'll keep you posted.

Mom on the Edge said...

Hahaha. Fortunately she's graduated from college and has a full-time job, so she's well on her way to being a contributing member of society. She also decorates some awesome cakes (see http://www.momintwocultures.com/2011/12/birthday-party-part-2-never.html if you haven't already) and I think she could make great money doing that on the side, too!